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from ancient times to modern times, people are always used to winning social recognition through self-expression, which is a natural psychological tendency. the ancients incorporated this behavior into literary works, such as dou ji's "song of the cursive script of master huaisu", in which he depicted the tang dynasty calligrapher huaisu "brushing moments" on the wall, which fully reflects the society's attention to self-image at that time.
with the advent of the internet age, the emergence of social media platforms has provided people with new ways of expression. however, with the popularity of "hardcover" friend circles, people find that they may be in a dilemma. many people begin to excessively pursue perfect self-expression, and even ignore real emotions and inner voices. behind this phenomenon is the complexity of personal psychology and the shaping of personal values by the social environment.
the "internet celebrities" and "big sellers" on social media platforms use traffic to survive and constantly promote the good things in their lives. they deliberately create a "refined" lifestyle to attract more attention and admiration. this "finely crafted" self-shaping behavior ultimately leads people into a competition of vanity and comparison, and gradually lose their true self-worth.
the essence of "friend circle" is connection and interaction, but nowadays, it has evolved into a stage for self-formation. on the fictional "stage", people constantly pursue the so-called "high-end" and even excessively show off their lives in order to get more likes. this behavior may hide feelings of anxiety and inferiority. people try to gain recognition and satisfaction through social media, but eventually fall into a state of self-isolation.
however, not all "hardcover" friend circles are negative. some people use social media platforms to express their true feelings and thoughts, and get support and encouragement from them. this positive way of expression can help people build real self-confidence and self-worth, and gain deeper social recognition.
in the future, how to balance the "hardcover" circle of friends and the true self-expression is a direction that we need to constantly think about and explore. we need to better understand and manage ourselves through the exploration of our inner world, so that we can truly release our true self.
